Daily Devotional: We Grow Together

By David A. Case

“From whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies… causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love.” (Ephesians 4:16, NKJV)

Ephesians 4 gives us a powerful picture of the body of Christ. God gives apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers to equip the saints for the work of ministry. Their job is not to become spiritual celebrities. Their job is to help the whole body grow up. Leadership in the kingdom is not about standing above everyone else. It is about raising others into maturity.

That is very different from the way many people think about greatness. We tend to admire standouts. We like stars. We celebrate the person with visible gifts, strong charisma, or public influence. Yet the biblical picture is not a few spiritual stars and many spectators. The biblical picture is a whole body becoming mature, healthy, connected, and full of love.

When each part does its own special work, the other parts grow. That means my faithfulness helps you grow, and your faithfulness helps me grow. My maturity strengthens the body. My immaturity weakens it. My obedience brings life into the system. My selfishness brings sickness into the system. A rising tide raises all ships. A falling tide lowers all ships.

This is why the lie “I don’t need church to follow God” is so dangerous. People usually say it after being hurt by other Christians. The pain is real. The wounds should not be minimized. Yet the pain itself reveals something important. We can only be hurt by what we care about. If church wounds hurt deeply, it means connection matters deeply. The person who says, “I do not need others,” is often speaking from hurt, not from truth.

God designed life so that every one of us is incomplete by ourselves. First, we need God. We were created to be a home for His presence. His Spirit completes a part of us that nothing else can touch. Yet we also need human connection. The body of Christ cannot grow apart from the body of Christ. A hand cannot mature in isolation from the arm. A foot cannot fulfill its function disconnected from the body.

Oneness is not optional. We can practice it well, and it becomes life. We can practice it poorly, and it becomes destructive. Galatians warns that if we bite and devour one another, we will be consumed by one another. That is shared outcome language. When believers attack one another, the whole body suffers. When believers love one another, the whole body grows.

This does not mean every church environment is healthy. Some places are so broken that separation may be needed for a season. Yet isolation should never become a permanent identity. God heals us so we can reconnect in life-giving ways. He restores us so we can become part of the rising tide.

We grow together, or we get sick together. That may sound strong, but it is true. God has made us one. The health of the body depends on each part doing its own special work in love.

Reflection Question

Where have I believed the lie that I can grow fully without close connection to other believers?

Prayer

Father, help me see the body of Christ the way You see it. Heal the places where I have been hurt by others, and keep me from using pain as an excuse for isolation. Show me the work You have given me to do so others can grow. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Obedience Step for Today

Reach out to one believer who strengthens your walk with God. Thank them for the life they have poured into you, and ask God how you can strengthen someone else this week.

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This devotional was inspired by the book Heart Change Handbook by David A. Case. If you found it helpful, please consider it for your own self-study and suggest it to your church small group or recovery community as a basis for small group study.

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